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up and letting go. If they are deep rooted troubles, she may need to see a professional
hypnotherapist.
At all times, be clear, simple, and direct, while remaining flexible to alternatives
if they lead toward the same goals. Also, be flexible about the occasional nights when
she just is not in the mood for one particular type of sexual activity. Let it be. Wait for
another day to do that. It's ok.
And always, as Mark tells us, have faith in her that she will suggest new ways
that both of you can experience exciting new adventures.
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"Sexy is not something you do, it's something you are. Have you ever seen a
woman try to DO sexy? It's like a stripper. It looks stupid. But for those women who
truly ARE sexy... wow." Suzylicorice
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Be The Man
You would certainly want your woman to be all woman for you. In order to
bring out the best in a woman, you must be all man for her. Don't TRY to be the man.
Don't ACT like the man. Instead, BE The Man.
It does not mean be macho. It does not mean be an alpha male. It is about
something else entirely. It is about personal power. Not power over other people. If
you had power over other people, then by definition, somebody else would have
power over you. Instead, it is about the power that comes from within you. It is about
being personally powerful.
You are honest with yourself. You are true to yourself. This implies that you
are honest with others. To deceive others would violate the rule.
You have respect for yourself. You expect to be treated with respect. This
implies that you treat others with respect. To do otherwise would violate the rule. You
do not expend any energy on people who do not treat you with respect. To do so
would violate the rule.
You are in control of your own state at all times. You feel good, for yourself, by
yourself, because of yourself.
You are congruent with your words.
You are in control without being controlling. You are confident without being
arrogant. You have powerful feelings and thoughts. You are totally emotionally
honest. It is a very rare combination to be powerfully confident and emotional.
You are a dominant man - one that can be in charge, commanding, and in
control, and feel completely comfortable with that role. Like Mark Cunningham says
"Be comfortable with power." This is very different from being demanding or
controlling.
Mark tells us to "Be tough. She doesn't expect you to always win, but she does
expect you to be tough."
You Love Women. You believe in women. You are fascinated by women.
You adore everything that defines a woman as woman. You derive no greater pleasure
than pleasing a woman. You say it often and you believe it and it makes you feel good
to say it. If you can't do that, then you need to honestly ask yourself what your true
motivations are.
You are a man that appreciates and revels in her sexiness. You make her feel
like the sexiest woman in the world. You revel in savoring the sensual woman in her,
and you are comfortable in doing that.
You have your own identity. You are NOT defined by her. Keep your own
identity.
You don't need her. You want her, but you don't need her.
Mark tells us: "Live the life of adventure. Adventure is the approach you take.
Look at everything with a sense of passion. Be willing to take risks."
You are decisive. You can decide where to eat and where to sit. (Of course, if
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she suggests somewhere else, you can go with that.) Never take anything for granted.
Never assume.
You know what you want. If you don't know what you want, you probably
won't get it, in fact, you'll probably end up with something you don't want.
You are powerful in that you evoke powerful emotions in her. Always keep
seducing her.
You know what she likes. You listen for what she likes. You ask questions that
will allow you to learn what she likes.
Do not give her a key to your place. Do not let her leave her stuff at your place.
Keep your own life, until you both make the investment to make a life together.
When at the night club, and you return from the bathroom to find some guy
hitting on her, you say to the guy "Excuse me, this lady's on a date." She DOES want
you to say SOMETHING. She does NOT want you to get into a fight. If the guy gets
bouge, simply take her away from the situation. With the really good women, you can
leave her alone and know that she will just tell any guy to get lost.
Be a little mysterious. Don't tell her everything you do. Hold a little back. Tell
her something later and let it surprise her.
Find out what her fantasies are, and then at a later date, narrate them back to
her. Then act them out.
Always expand her envelope of sexuality.
Talk dirty to her while you fuck her.
Make sex different every time.
She must hear your voice in her head when she comes. Install your voice by
saying a key phrase each time she comes. In the future, she will hear that in her head.
If she is not orgasmic, train her to be orgasmic. If she is not vaginally orgasmic,
train her to be vaginally orgasmic. If she is not multi-orgasmic, train her to be multi-
orgasmic.
Never paw at her. Let her paw at you.
Never ask for sex. Instead, spend the evening planting anchors, making her feel
sexy and beautiful, and then at the end of the evening, simply fire off the anchors and
let her jump you.
Always look for new opportunities to plant new anchors. Always dig for new
core beliefs.
She always comes more than you. Intercourse always results in an orgasm for
her.
She is totally naked before you even so much as take your shoes off. Unless, of
course, she rips your clothes off.
Reward her for good behavior, and do NOT reward her for improper behavior.
Mark tells us that I out of every 6 times you should not reward her for her good
behavior. This keeps her trying even harder.
On those rare occasions when you happen to not be "in the mood" don't get it
on just to placate her. That would not be true to yourself, or her. You can please her,
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but you are not obliged to do anything more.
When she compliments you, don't reply with a thank you and the same
compliment back. Instead say: "Oh Baby, that makes me feel so good." If she gives
you another one, give her what she really wants to hear: "Oh Baby, that makes me feel
so close to you."
Some guys suggest canceling dates on occasions. That is a bad thing. That will
only make her angry, will get worse with time, and will certainly backfire. Besides, it
is outright lying. Instead, on occasions, when she calls you and suggests a particular
night to go out, and you happen to already have other plans, then simply tell her so.
This makes you more valuable. It also makes her wonder a bit. It also serves to
illustrate that you have a life. And don't change your plans. That would be placating.
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